We spent all class on only a few verses. I remember Nibley talking about the creation, we were in Abraham 4: 1-2. It’s the part where the Lord said, let us go down and organize the earth, and after it was formed, it was empty and desolate, nothing was on the earth and it was dark and the
“Spirit of the Gods was brooding upon the face of the waters.”
Nibley explained that brooding is a word that means the same thing as when a hen sits on her eggs, waiting for them to hatch. In other words, there was a long passage of time. I always think of him when I read those passages.
I met Nibley another time, my hubby and I went with my sister and brother-in-law over to his house in Provo for family night. We sat there in his family room, his wife was working on some needlework and there were books all over. His youngest daughter, Zina was sprawled out in another chair. To tell you the truth, I didn’t know what to say, I didn’t want to appear stupid. My hubby, dear that he is, asked some controversial gospel question — and Nibley side-stepped it.
Another time, we helped pay for him to fly down and speak at one of our firesides in Irvine, CA. Brother Nibley stayed with my sister and brother-in-law at their house. She recalls he went for a walk, was gone a long time, and sat on the sofa reading a book to her children and being amused with Richard Scary. One thing that did not amuse him were the large number of attorneys in our stake.
I continue to learn from Nibley, because I always hear something new when I read or listen to his talks.
Hugh Nibley progressed to the next life on Feb 24, 2005. He was almost 95 and anxious to move on. His daughter, Zina, shared at his funeral, that towards the end of his life, when he was ready for bed he would say “Tonight may be the night!”
The next morning he would wake up and say, “Damn!”
Two of my sons attended his funeral because they were at school at BYU. Elder Holland and Elder Oaks attended. And Elder Holland left an Apostolic blessing upon the family and Hugh Nibley’s work. Later, Nibley’s son-in-law, Boyd Petersen, married to Zina, talked about what he had learned from Nibley, What I Learned About Life, the Church, and the Cosmos from Hugh Nibley:
Briefly here is the list:
- Write Letters
- Take Scriptures Seriously, but Don’t Assume that What You Were Taught in Primary was Right
- Love Learning
- Rank, Titles, Degrees Mean Little; Pay Attention to Amateurs
- Look for Miracles in Everyday Life
- Assume the Lord is in Charge of Your Life
- Take Advantage of Serendipitous Moments
- Don’t Take Yourself Too Seriously
- Get Outdoors Often
- Defend the Church
- If you Disagree with Church Policy, Keep Quiet
- You Have to Earn the Right to Criticize
- Don’t Worry About Offending People with Your Opinions
- People Can Disagree and Still be Friends
- Become a Common Face in the Temple
- Adore Little Children
- The Three Most Important Things:
- To proclaim peace,
- To consecrate everything we have to the building up of Zion,
- To remember that there are only two things we can be good at; things the angels envy us for: our ability to forgive and to repent.
My Hugh Nibley story is one of regret. In 1974, he was going to be teaching a class on Egyptian Hieroglyphics. I really wanted to take that class, but my Greek professor discouraged me from doing so. He said, “Phyllis, you’re already taking 5 languages… it would be too much.” Now as I look back on it, maybe Bro. Mackey didn’t want me in the class because HE was taking it. *LOL* I’ve always looked back on that decision with the greatest of regrets. After all, anyone who would marry a Phyllis HAS to be great, right? hahahhaha… Is the Craig in this blog Craig Valentine from La Crescenta? =)
too bad! no the craig is a friend I met while at BYU the one year I was there.
Hi Deila, do you and Gene still have that Nibley book I gave you? Pre-marriage days I think. I’ve got a Nibley story, my first experience with him in a BYU religion class. Maybe later. You have a great website. Keep going strong. My wife and I enjoy the posts. I couldn’t believe your Mom was on the roof!
Of course! Good to hear from you, where you guys living these days? Please share your story, for sure.
Here we go for the second time. My first reply vanished. I’m so good with computers. We live in San Diego. Married thirty eight years to my long suffering wife, Marta. Seven children, seven grandchildren. I’ve been a Golf Course Superintendent or Assistant for over twenty years. I write screenplays, novels, and poetry all unpublished and unadorned by the banners of Babylon. (And I hope that the “The Assignation” by Lord Dunsany will not apply to me).
My Nibley story is from 1970. Our church basketball team, from Houston, Texas, won the regional qualifier and we entered the Church’s Basketball Tournament in Salt Lake City. My oldest brother invited me to a religion class at BYU. You gotta to remember, I was a kid who crossed back and forth over the straight and narrow path more times than I’ve been on it. Any religious thought was in one ear and out the other. So we get to the large classroom and sit in the back. The place is packed.
An old man shuffles in and I ask my brother, “Is he teaching the class?” He smiled and nodded at the man unfolding a set of scriptures. The man opened his mouth and my jaw dropped. I had never experienced the speaking frenzy of a man’s intellect so broad and yet so precise. He went off on tangents of the gospel that were mysterious and mind bending. He wrapped everything up and tied the bows to his original premise and I sat there stunned. The fastest hour of instruction in my life. I turned to my brother and asked, “Who is this guy?” He laughed and said, “Hugh Nibley.”
Later in life i would buy his books, always fascinated by the new words that I would learn. Keep writing, you have a unique voice. Marta’s favorite post is your Relief Society firing post. Craig
Craig– I must read some of your writings, since I abhor Babylon 🙂 And I can tell you write well. Any ebooks? Have you written about your BYU experiences? I love your Nibley story. I was also just a visitor when I went with my brother-in-law. Glad your wife liked my firing!
Beautiful post and beautiful list. I’m just discovering Nibley. Thank you:)
Terrific post. I love it when an incredible thinker and communicator condenses his messages in such a way that reaches us so pointedly.
Have a great day,, thanks for coming to my blog.
Keri
The one thing which attract me here is about Nibley is”Love Learning”.
dean graziosi
Zina and Boyd were in my old ward and they still live a block away from me. You’ve inspired me to study Hugh Nibley in greater depth. Thank you.
He was a good man…I agree with his points above too. His brother who was into music wrote my little daughter a letter once, because she was using his books as she first started into piano. 😀